Want to know How to Romance Astarion in Baldur’s Gate 3? Astarion is a popular character, but winning his heart isn’t easy. You’ll need to make some tricky choices, and it might be challenging for good-aligned characters. In this guide, we’ll explain how to romance and gain Astarion approval, including how to earn or lose his favor and the best things to say to get closer to this vampire character.

How to Romance Astarion Baldur's Gate 3

How to Romance Astarion Guide

You’ll meet Astarion in the early part of Baldur’s Gate 3, near the crash site of the Nautiloid. As you get to know him, you’ll discover he has a unique “condition” we won’t reveal entirely here. But what’s important is that he’ll like you more if you’re open to cooperating with creatures usually seen as monsters. He also enjoys a bit of flair and doesn’t like it when things get too dull.

Astarion Romance Guide – Dialogue Choices Act 1

Astarion’s attraction lies in power and a penchant for deception, and if you want to win him over, reveal your darker side to show you care. While he flirts early on, you’ll need to work to earn his trust and demonstrate your alignment with his preferences.

To earn Astarion’s approval, support his desires, show understanding of his condition, align with creatures seen as monsters, be ruthless, embrace drama, display your power, have an appreciation for luxury, and exhibit cruelty. Conversely, you’ll lose his approval if you demonstrate altruism, compromise, show weakness, exercise restraint, or pass judgment on his condition.