To begin romancing Lae’zel, first locate her on the Nautiloid ship in the prologue. Later, find her again on Revenge Beach, north of Roadside Cliffs, in Act One.

Once you meet her, work on gaining her approval. She’s direct, so win her over by reacting in ways that resonate with her straightforward nature. For instance, attack Taman and Gimblelock, let Zevlor know you’re too busy to assist him, assure Nettie you’ll ingest the poison, make the Novice Crusher kiss your foot at the Goblin Camp, and generally show a bit of cruelty in your actions.

Lae'zel romance Baldur's Gate 3

Think like a Githyanki as a general guide. Whenever she expresses positive feelings about Githyanki-related things, such as their methods or lifestyle, show agreement.

When her approval of you is strong (you’ll notice this if you can ask her whether she sees you differently during a camp conversation after your first talk), she’ll mention that your scent alone makes her hair stand on end. At this stage, you’ve won her interest and affection.

How to Romance Lae’zel in Baldur’s Gate 3

  • Teach Tiefling in Druid Grove to fight.
  • Scare bird in Druid Grove with Speak with Animals.
  • Make Zorru kneel in Druid Grove.
  • Fight Taman and Gimbledock on Dank Crypt.
  • Tell Zevlor no time for Druid Grove help.
  • Support Lae’zel’s opinions with confidence.
  • Crush Tadpole outside Druid Grove.
  • Reject Cambion’s Tadpole offer.
  • Make Novice Crusher kiss foot at Shattered Sanctum.
  • Resist dream sequences.
  • Battle BOOOAL in Festering Cove.
  • Let Lae’zel speak among Gith’yanki.